Friday, August 05, 2005

men's rights over the baby

ok.Now it's time form some controversy.
Please, do not hold me accountable for not being on a "neutral corner".
Keep this in mind as you read this :)

Times are changing. Women is demanding and getting out more. They have become employees and bosses and demanded equal rights in every aspects of our lives. I have no problems with that.
However, they are very strong headed against men helping creating the baby. It seems sometimes they forget that we, as fathers have THE SAME RIGHTS and also we have some ideas of our own on how to create the baby.

It is not logical. Yet, in my view, they resent if you are willing to change the baby, (bottle)feed them and bathe them. If you disagree as to when the baby should go to sleep, or when to shower the baby, or any little things like that, they will basically let you know in no good terms they do not apreciate your inputs.

They will basically tell you that they are the mothers and they know what is best for the child.
I've read many topics about this, and even women's right groups know that this is true. Women were created up until not long ago, to believe that they were the housewife. They were probably raised (mostly) by their moms and the father was the absent one whom they saw only at nights when he arrived from work. And so their idea is that if her husband is doing something her father never did, something is wrong.

Well, I disagree.

As women move out on the world to study and work, many men also changed, taking care of the family, becoming stay-at-home-dads, and adding to the input and decision-making when it comes to the baby's life.
So get over it.
It is our baby too.

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